tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1794291026218471965.post2805880844761351683..comments2023-11-05T09:53:20.998+00:00Comments on A Kind Dom: releasedPygarhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/11913556740445196578noreply@blogger.comBlogger13125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1794291026218471965.post-90093772555714667022009-03-02T16:43:00.000+00:002009-03-02T16:43:00.000+00:00I suggested above that a female blogger might inve...I suggested above that a female blogger might investigate further the issue about "putting submission back in the box".<BR/><BR/>Well Selkie has done just that.<BR/><BR/>She has written at some length about her own feelings in relation to submission and whether it can be "put back in the box". I recommend you visit her blog and read her thoughtful posts. The last one is <A HREF="http://seafoamselkie.blogspot.com/2009/03/submission-conclusion-stand-up-and-be.html" REL="nofollow">here</A> with links to the previous parts.Pygarhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11913556740445196578noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1794291026218471965.post-13362818845182111292009-02-26T22:15:00.000+00:002009-02-26T22:15:00.000+00:00Thank you David.- PThank you David.<BR/><BR/>- PPygarhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11913556740445196578noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1794291026218471965.post-28304329583916944582009-02-26T21:28:00.000+00:002009-02-26T21:28:00.000+00:00Be well my friend.Be well my friend.Davidhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04943867226010869367noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1794291026218471965.post-64681799653883648972009-02-25T10:55:00.000+00:002009-02-25T10:55:00.000+00:00Thank you blueeyes, t, J, Tristan and Gillette for...Thank you blueeyes, t, J, Tristan and Gillette for your comments and your supportive words.<BR/><BR/>The thread trough some comments about the difficulty of putting submission back in its box once it has been let out is interesting - but one perhaps for a sub blogger to explore further rather than me.<BR/><BR/>swan asks what I have learned and what I would do differently. I think I can feel another blog post coming on swan about that very thing!<BR/><BR/>xPxPygarhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11913556740445196578noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1794291026218471965.post-42876322523626553202009-02-25T05:59:00.000+00:002009-02-25T05:59:00.000+00:00What a powerful experience for you both. What a g...What a powerful experience for you both. What a gift your realizations are for her. <BR/><BR/>Opening can be scary. Opening Big can overwhelm. <BR/><BR/>I have re-learned a valuable soul lesson these past few years: Things are often not as they appear to be in the moment; Truth can be veiled in fear. <BR/><BR/>Allowing a Yes can lead to huge stuff, which triggers a No in protection. <BR/><BR/>It will be interesting to see where her no leads her.Moihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00937241708513207283noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1794291026218471965.post-73602631422021071772009-02-25T01:47:00.000+00:002009-02-25T01:47:00.000+00:00*nods quietly*I remember being surprised. It's nev...*nods quietly*<BR/>I remember being surprised. It's never fun. Change is always good (I keep saying that) and we hcange all the time.<BR/><BR/>It just means you will find the right one, maybe next time.Tristanhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06094831630489424911noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1794291026218471965.post-70884849346594424722009-02-25T00:13:00.000+00:002009-02-25T00:13:00.000+00:00{{{{{{{{M}}}}}}}}<3 <3 <3 ~J~{{{{{{{{M}}}}}}}}<BR/><BR/><3 <3 <3<BR/> ~J~January Blackthornehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10312917552511690286noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1794291026218471965.post-26098842788967162762009-02-24T23:54:00.000+00:002009-02-24T23:54:00.000+00:00Wishing you well Pygar... hope you are not too sad...Wishing you well Pygar... hope you are not too sad for too long.<BR/><BR/>*hugs*<BR/><BR/>t. xtrinity puphttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07874053197708410955noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1794291026218471965.post-41046294642871466362009-02-24T23:48:00.000+00:002009-02-24T23:48:00.000+00:00I am curious about what you believe you've learned...I am curious about what you believe you've learned through this experience?<BR/><BR/>What would you do differently if the circumstances arose?<BR/><BR/>swanSuehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03961893281142538409noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1794291026218471965.post-88229662983730557412009-02-24T23:43:00.000+00:002009-02-24T23:43:00.000+00:00I completely agree with Charli's comment that your...I completely agree with Charli's comment that your girl will likely not be able to 'put away' her newfound submission, even though it may have caused issues with her life. I've tried to do the same, and it has never stayed put for too long. The yearning always returns, so much so that sometimes I curse the day I realized who and what I am. Take care of yourself right now, and take comfort in things that bring you pleasure. You may even find that another turn of events is around the corner...<BR/> <BR/>My best to you, as always,<BR/>~blueeyesAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1794291026218471965.post-1262675417265919982009-02-24T23:06:00.000+00:002009-02-24T23:06:00.000+00:00Thank you Lev for your kind words. They are very m...Thank you Lev for your kind words. They are very much appreciated.<BR/><BR/>Thank you too Charli for your explanation of how it feels from the sub's perspective. That is so valuable - to me as well as to other readers I am sure. I too had wondered what the long term effects of such an awakening might be.<BR/><BR/>xPxPygarhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11913556740445196578noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1794291026218471965.post-50502082121728153432009-02-24T19:20:00.000+00:002009-02-24T19:20:00.000+00:00I have had (and still am having) very personal exp...I have had (and still am having) very personal experience with just this scenario and completely understand and empathize with the psychological immersion that she went through in discovering her inner submissive core. I know the depth of feeling and emotion that can develop in a very short space of time as well as the overwhelming sense (and truth) that other things in your preexisting life are being diminished, to some extent.<BR/><BR/>Without knowing her I can only speculate, ofcourse, but I believe that, from what you described, it will be very hard for her to go back to her "normal" life.....it will not be long before she is again drawn to submission. I am afraid that once someone discovers this aspect of his/her personality it is just not possible to put it back in the box, so to speak.<BR/><BR/>We are who we are and nothing (or no one) will be able to change that.CharliB.https://www.blogger.com/profile/07348297302596893151noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1794291026218471965.post-18594392135868435262009-02-24T19:04:00.000+00:002009-02-24T19:04:00.000+00:00I am so sorry that it did not work out as you had ...I am so sorry that it did not work out as you had hoped. I can only imagine your surpise and sadness at this turn of events. I admire your compassion and chivalry given the circumstances.<BR/><BR/>LevAnonymousnoreply@blogger.com