tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1794291026218471965.post7978611245440046292..comments2023-11-05T09:53:20.998+00:00Comments on A Kind Dom: love and affectionPygarhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/11913556740445196578noreply@blogger.comBlogger9125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1794291026218471965.post-57701465703874878282010-07-23T15:12:15.831+01:002010-07-23T15:12:15.831+01:00Thank you Ron.
I too have come across subs who ha...Thank you Ron.<br /><br />I too have come across subs who have been unable to form the emotional tie. So often it is expected perhaps as the other way round. Mmmm - something for me to think about.<br /><br />- PPygarhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11913556740445196578noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1794291026218471965.post-78035669116129933582010-07-23T14:00:25.243+01:002010-07-23T14:00:25.243+01:00As a Dom i totally agree with the concept...that t...As a Dom i totally agree with the concept...that the act of a sub giving herself to me is the most emotional and loving thing i know. <br /><br />I find it frustrating to know and play with a sub who cannot return emotional closeness...there are a lot who enjoy the act but not the emotional tie.... unrequited love Ds styleUnknownhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08769332017563611172noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1794291026218471965.post-7467117707134407992010-07-22T13:53:20.069+01:002010-07-22T13:53:20.069+01:00Thank you Maryann. I do understand you. Thank you ...Thank you Maryann. I do understand you. Thank you also for your kind wishes.<br /><br />xPxPygarhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11913556740445196578noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1794291026218471965.post-87223929924118631642010-07-22T11:51:19.454+01:002010-07-22T11:51:19.454+01:00Dear Pygar,
I don't think the line between int...Dear Pygar,<br />I don't think the line between intimacy and abuse is close at all. Intimacy/love/affection, even the sado-masochistic kind, enhances a relationship. Abuse destroys it. One protects consent at all times; the other is not consensual. One brings satisfaction to both parties; the other harms both parties.<br /><br />I do get your point, though, and I hope you are not long without all the intimacy, love, and affection your heart and hands can hold.<br />MaryannAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1794291026218471965.post-15162155654908591732010-07-16T21:18:25.421+01:002010-07-16T21:18:25.421+01:00Thank you Maryann.
Yes that close line between su...Thank you Maryann.<br /><br />Yes that close line between such sensual, perhaps sado-masochistic intimacy and abuse ... it is the love, repect and trust that makes it special and desirable.<br /><br />I miss it so at the moment.<br /><br />xPxPygarhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11913556740445196578noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1794291026218471965.post-29954490082706393022010-07-15T01:31:13.279+01:002010-07-15T01:31:13.279+01:00Dear Pygar,
Power exchange enhances intimacy for m...Dear Pygar,<br />Power exchange enhances intimacy for me. If it didn't it would feel like abuse, I think.<br />MaryannAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1794291026218471965.post-54201655836818942892010-07-14T23:31:47.802+01:002010-07-14T23:31:47.802+01:00Thanks David and Jz - I think for most of those wh...Thanks David and Jz - I think for most of those who comment on this blog the quality of relationship is central.<br /><br />Thanks too David for the link. I hope others follow it and find it as interesting as I did.<br /><br />I am sure too Jz that you could never be "just another grey cat..."<br /><br />xPxPygarhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11913556740445196578noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1794291026218471965.post-32284713371715263542010-07-09T21:09:12.197+01:002010-07-09T21:09:12.197+01:00I like to think (hope?) you are correct because my...I like to think (hope?) you are correct because my relationship with my Dom is certainly something special to me. It would be disappointing to learn I was just another grey cat...Jzhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00301793291285112859noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1794291026218471965.post-24474185930895992742010-07-09T17:47:39.175+01:002010-07-09T17:47:39.175+01:00The relationship between a dominant and a submissi...The relationship between a dominant and a submissive is first and foremost, simply, a relationship between two people. It has all of those feelings of affection, friendship, closeness, loving and caring, in both directions, as does any other relationship . . .<br /><br />I invite you to read the rest of this at <i><a href="http://dsinvegas.blogspot.com/2009/06/wiifm.html" rel="nofollow">What's In It For Me</a></i> - and then perhaps have a look at some of the other posts. While I do not often talk specifically about a particular relationship, I think you will get a sense of how a dominant, or at least this one, lives in a relationship.<br /><br />Good Luck to you.Davidhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04943867226010869367noreply@blogger.com