tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1794291026218471965.post4526415595635817215..comments2023-11-05T09:53:20.998+00:00Comments on A Kind Dom: conditioningPygarhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/11913556740445196578noreply@blogger.comBlogger4125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1794291026218471965.post-51042625209706143342017-02-09T12:42:45.218+00:002017-02-09T12:42:45.218+00:00Brilliant again...I knew you'd have sound advi...Brilliant again...I knew you'd have sound advice!DMhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05841533836233610976noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1794291026218471965.post-25039497741181460572009-04-23T15:16:00.000+01:002009-04-23T15:16:00.000+01:00Thank you F.
Thank you to cutesy pah or your thou...Thank you F.<br /><br />Thank you to cutesy pah or your thoughtful comments.I think I agree with all you have said. I think too that it is important for a sub to recognise her responsibilities too. Though I feel so many through the nature of the relationship perhaps rely totally on their Masters.<br /><br />Yet again it emphasises the importance of good communications<br /><br />xPxPygarhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11913556740445196578noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1794291026218471965.post-9528154221631127742009-04-20T02:13:00.000+01:002009-04-20T02:13:00.000+01:00As I commented on the "Uncle Agony" blog, this is ...As I commented on the "Uncle Agony" blog, this is a common problem with anyone going through a breakup. It is particularly problemmatic for those in a BDSM or D/s dynamic, in that we choose to develop a deeper connection, and a deeper trust.<br /><br />Whether it be orgasm training, or allowing someone to have complete control over the finances, these agreements between partners must also have a safety catch, or a "back door" sts. When a man who has run the family business suddenly dies, and has never informed anyone where his insurance policies are, when the bills are due, or where to find the safety deposit boxes, the wife and children are left bewildered, lost, and wondering why they were left in the dark.<br /><br />When a Dominant trains a submissive, he or she must always have the submissive's best interest at heart, and must consider the very real probability that one day he or she will be gone from the submissive's life. <br /><br />Like you, I think that it is a failure to realize and plan for such an incident. If the Dominant is to be in control, and follows SSC or RISK, these issues must be foremost in his or her mind.<br /><br />Likewise, the submissive must consider these issues as well. We as submissive and slave still retain our ability to choose, and think. We must address these issues with our Dominants, as any fears or concerns which arise in our minds should be brought up for discussion. <br /><br />It is easy to ask for a "time out" to discuss our concerns when the relationship is happy and healthy. Once the relationship has fallen apart, or a person dies, it makes for a difficult discussion to point out what "should have been done" long ago.<br /><br />Thanks for bringing up this important issue.<br /><br />hugs,<br />Daddy's cutesy pahcutesypahhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07954055832006760974noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1794291026218471965.post-76262268143689814442009-04-16T19:18:00.000+01:002009-04-16T19:18:00.000+01:00Thank you so much for your support.
You are the b...Thank you so much for your support. <br />You are the best friend.<br /><br />F XXXOAnonymousnoreply@blogger.com