Saturday, 12 January 2008

Pomposity

I often find that men in 'Dom mode' can sometimes sound very pompous.

Does that go with the territory?

Is it not possible to have a lighter touch?

What was that?

Me too?

Oh!

Right then ...

6 comments:

Anonymous said...

Dear Sir,

Pompous? Hmmmm, perhaps....

To me there seems to be a lot of arrogance. I think it may be all that testosterone running through all the domly bodies.

Respectfully,
~A~

Pygar said...

Yes - I think you are right dear A. I find it comes over as such as well. (I was trying not to upset people too much as I am still the new boy on the block.) But perhaps many subs are impressed by such posturing?

However your respectful posture becomes you ...

Though now I am in danger of becoming patronising as well as pompous.

xPx

trinity-pup said...

i believe that a lot of Doms feel that they have to be arrogant, that it is a part of being a Dom, how wrong they are...

t.

Pygar said...

Welcome t. It is nice to see you here.

I am pleased you agree that arrogance should not be part of being a Dom.

xPx

-p said...

A little bit of arrogance goes a long way. ;)

Odoriko said...

I have spoken online to a couple of doms who were indeed very pompous, and it comes off as rather amusing and silly rather than powerful.