Katastrophe asked in a comment here about switching - where one may move between sub and Dom roles in a relationship or between relationships.
For some it can enhance a relationship - twice the fun! I suppose too that if one can take both roles then one can appreciate better what it is like for the other and empathise with ones partner. While I think that empathy is good and that a Dom should try to have a good understanding of what it is like for their partner I'm afraid I find the idea of submission for myself very difficult. Perhaps I do not have the courage!
I know some who have different roles with different partners. Two women I know will sub to men but will only act in a dominant role with other women.
Do readers have direct eperience of switching? What is it like for you?
Sticking point - Mary emailed me again recently. Things seem to be going very well for her but she has a problem. I'll let her explain: I have a question that you and perha...
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