I find it so.
I get turned on by power and control in a sensual or sexual setting. For instance in my last post about orgasms I find controlling a sub's orgasms erotic in itself. The same with other aspects of BDSM such as bondage, spanking, etc. - especially when combined within such settings.
I wonder though if others find this almost frivolous. For them D/s may be a lifestyle choice. They get satisfaction and fulfillment from it without the need for a sexual thrill.
I am not trying to say that for me BDSM is exclusively a sexual activity. However it certainly adds to my sexual pleasure.
I do know that many submissives are also turned on through being controlled, from being in the power of another, by being spanked or held in bondage.
I wonder about my readers...
Does BDSM turn you on?
...or is it more serious than that?
Sticking point - Mary emailed me again recently. Things seem to be going very well for her but she has a problem. I'll let her explain: I have a question that you and perha...
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