"We do have a say in what happens to us."
Yes Jz you do and should have. Subs understand this I think better than many Doms. Subs who don't understand this are putting themselves in danger.
Do read Jz's recent post. She has written much of what I have been stumbling to say over recent months and years. You can find it here.
I think a good summary is contained in her words here:
"Genuine, sustainable submission comes from deep within and is based on faith and trust."
I hope that is what I have been trying to argue here.
"But why?"
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This might seem like a weird drop in a weirder bucket....BUT...
Afterall, there is a difference between a sub and a doormat.
We (as subs) choose to submit, its not done out of a wonton (I know I spelled that wrong) for another fixture in our lives.
Just my opinion
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Thanks Jen - the distinction between a sub and a doormat is one all subs should hold on tightly to.
xPx
A sub with no say whatsoever might make for good porn and fantasy. However, it makes for a terrible life.
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