an award!!!!!!

Monkey has very kindly nominated me (and Beau!) for a Liebster award. Now I'm not sure exactly what a Liebster award is but it was very good of her. She has written some very kind words about this blog and my other blog written as Beau here.

In fact she says she prefers the blog I write as Beau. That is very encouraging as I was planning to try to get it going again. I have a few posts ready to upload there so do pop in now and again.

I'm afraid I'm not very food at all teh question and answer part of these awards so I'll leave that to Beau.

Again monkey - thank you very much and good luck on your journey.

more about tears ...

LizLeia just published a kind comment on my previous post about "tears" here.

She discovered the post while researching why men find tears a sign of weakness and found it refreshing that Doms could talk of weeping and showing emotion openly. So she has presented us with the following question:

"A question to Pygar and the other Doms: what does your sub do that allows you to feel so free to express this? Question for the subs: How do you feel when your Dom cries in front of you? Thanks!"

 I will be interested to read the answers too!

at the moment ...

... I'm still in the middle of major changes to my life.

So forgive me if I am not here often. I have only occasional internet access while I am in transition. I will respond to recent comments as soon as I can. Thank you for them.

In the meantime you might be interested in this email which I recently received from The Institute of Arts and Ideas.

Dear Pygar,

I think you might be interested in a new video that's just been released, Venus in Furs. It's a discussion of BDSM relationships and pornography, and looking at some of the moral and cultural concerns that some people have with them. It's a pretty interesting and frank discussion, so I hope you enjoy it, and consider sharing a link with your readers.

Thanks very much,
Dominic Preston

It is basically a video of a very interesting discussion about bdsm and sexuality. It considers many of the ethical issues that we have discussed here and others. I hope you might find it interesting. Do let me know what you think.

Venus in Furs

changes ...

There are some major upheavals in my life at the moment. No doubt the fall-out may last some time. However in time I hope it will all be for the good - for everyone involved.

No doubt I will be blogging about it here soon!

Wish me luck.