Wednesday, 29 May 2019

masturbation 2

I mentioned in a comment to the previous post that by chance the day after I published about masturbation Girl on the Net did so too. On her blog she wrote that it is masturbation month and gave 10 fantasies to inspire us! You can read them all here.

So what kind of erotic fantasies help you in this endeavour? If you are sub do you have submissive fantasies? If Dom then dominant fantasies? Or might you sometimes switch when you are fantasising? Do Doms fantasise of being subs and vice versa? Do you fantasise about BDSM at all - or do you prefer vanilla fantasies? I wonder if people's fantasies may be more extreme than they would ever wish for in reality? Do you have recurring fantasies or a favourite that really turns you on?

Or perhaps, rather than self-created fantasies, you are aroused more easily by created erotica. In which case do videos, photographs, the written word or something else work best or you?

Or perhaps less is more. Anonymous in a comment that stimulate this series of posts was aroused by this blog with its discussions of BDSM relationships and sexuality. Can more subtle triggers help make you aroused?

In particular I am wondering which those in the BDSM scene are most turned on by - thoughts of vanilla sex or BDSM activity.

Do tell...

9 comments:

Anonymous said...

You first... :)

Pygar said...

Oh - you are teasing me now! That's what I do!!!

If only you had said "please"...

;)

P xx

Anonymous said...

Pretty please, Sir?

Pygar said...

Well, as you asked so nicely Anonymous...

I think I am most turned on by BDSM fantasies. Though nothing too extreme - that could have the opposite effect. The variations in vanilla sex are relatively limited. So such fantasies could become very boring. Whereas in BDSM, kink and fetish there is such variety which can maintain a variety of erotic thoughts...

Now your turn Anonymous.

;)

P xx

Anonymous said...

My fantasies are exclusively BDSM related. Mostly, they revolve around a strong man correcting me as needed. Per the stereotype, this flies in the face of my natural independence and type A personality in real life. I used to be deeply troubled by my desires but, over time, have learned to accept them.

Pygar said...

Thank you, Anonymous.

:)

Good girl.

;)

I think there are many who in "real life" can be strong, type A personalities but who at times crave for someone else to take control, and perhaps fantasise about this. I am sorry you used to be troubled by such desires but pleased that you are now able to embrace them.

Enjoy your fantasies, and realities!

P xx

Anonymous said...

"Good girl" reduces me to an absolute puddle. Thank you.

Would you mind linking some erotica that you find arousing? Have you written any? You truly should. I know I'd love it.

Pygar said...

:)

I used to write erotica on the Dragonfly Geisha blog and website but they got taken down some years ago. I haven't written any for years. If I manage to search some out I'll try and get it to you.

P xx

Anonymous said...

That would absolutely make my day!