Monday, 1 November 2010

humour

Shouldn't it be fun?

Yes this is serious but perhaps it is not always to be taken too seriously.

I love to to smile and laugh and yes - to see a sub smile and laugh, as well as her expressions of agony and ecstasy.

I will never forget a certain sub giggling, gurgling and growling as I dripped hot wax all over her naked body ...

Do you too like to have fun ... or is it all too serious a matter for that?

17 comments:

Anonymous said...

I have recently been told, rather sternly, that, "There is no laughter in bondage."

Which, naturally, made me laugh even harder.

But I know when to stop. And he knows how to make me. And THAT moment is utterly delicious.

lk

Pygar said...

Well - your comment made me laugh lk. Thank you! :)

But I can imagine a scenario where a Dom believes he has created a certain atmosphere ... only to have his sub start to laugh!!! Well even the kindest Dom might feel the need to reach for a cruel instrument to quell the giggles!

Though I believe a Dom needs a sense of humour too and should be strong enough to laugh at himself also in such circumstances - before finding ways of course to move on from the laughter!

What also made me smile though was how you found so delicious that moment when he made you stop laughing!

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Jz said...

I think anyone who reads my blog knows my answer! ;-)

(FUN! Very fun! Lots of fun! Fun.)

Pygar said...

Thanks Jz ...

... Fun ... FUN ... FUN!!!

:)

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nilla said...

i know the first time i started giggling and laughing while being resoundingly fucked by Sir was quite....disconcerting to Him.

He thought i was laughing at Him, tho he was also chuckling, my laughter infecting Him...

i held Him, HARD, and could barely speak, except for saying "happy, happy, HAPPY Sir, so so so sosoooo Happy, Sir."

later, devious Man, He found *all* of my ticklish spots.

sweet, silly torment.

nilla

Pygar said...

Thank you for sharing this nilla.

It has reminded me of a very special friend of some years ago. I remember too laughing during sex because it was all so much fun and so special the emotions spilled out in that way.

It is lovely to have been reminded of it Thank you again!

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lu peata said...

mmmmm hot wax still to try that one out!!!!

xx lu

Pygar said...

Hot wax is great fun lu peata. You will like it I am sure!!!!

*giggles wickedly*

;)

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nancy said...

Great question!
We laugh.. perhaps not during,
but certainly if I break out into gales of laughter , he knows all is well and can chuckle to himself..or laugh with me.
I've never broken out into laughter during a moment of seriousness. That would be almost impossible.. at least for me.

nilla said...

Certainly there are serious times with Sir and i.And tho He is not a Dom who wants me at His feet, i am neither His equal.

i will tease and tweek Him, but it's just gentle play...and He has no trouble turning me over His knee (dear gawd how HAWT that was--) that was not a laughing moment, but still an incredibly heated one.

This last time together, the laughter came later, and He was the one who laughed first. i'd said no no i can't (cum anymore)...and while He laughed, He proved me wrong (again) and made me laugh too.

nilla

Pygar said...

Thank you nancy - I'm pleased you know the time and place for laughter! There can be occasions where it would be most inappropriate!!!

Thanks too nilla. You sounded to be having lots and lots of fun!

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Pygar said...

Hello Anonymous

I am not really sure how to respond to your comment. It is clearly spam - and intended to create more spam through asking others to pass it on.

Personally I am not religious though I know some of my readers are. There are issues that many with a strong religious faith - not just Christian but of a variety of faiths - may have with BDSM. However there are Christian and Muslim saints who have used flagellation to achieve religious experiences.

If you are unhappy with aspects of this site then please join in with relevant comments and we can have an intelligent discussion.

That is what this blog is all about.

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PS Can I spank you?

Anonymous said...

I see no point in doing it if it isn't fun. I've heard him chuckling behind me while he's hitting me and I'm lying there breathless and exhausted from laughing at it all. I've heard others laughing too, at me or with me, I don't much care.

SubRosaNoMore said...

I often break into giggles during a spanking and that almost always elicits a chuckle from my Lady. Then there are the moments when we are seriously engaged and one of our dogs (who is lying nearby and trying to sleep) grumbles in a manner that suggests he really wishes we'd get our own room! Both of us promptly crack up.

Pygar said...

Thanks SubRosaNoMore I'm layghing at your grumpy dog!!!

:)

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Pygar said...

I agree Anonymous that fun should be a key part. Though Laughing "at" someone rather than laughing "with" them can be very cruel in a not at all nice way.

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