'Sub drop' is a term that is often used for the coming down a sub feels after an intense scene.
Thoughtful Doms will spend time at the end of a scene to help a sub get back to normality, to come round from what has taken place, to feel secure and cared for. Sometimes this can be a physical reaction and sometimes a psychological or emotional reaction. It can be akin to depression or sometimes is just physical shock.
It can also be delayed - not happening immediately but striking unexpectedly a little while later.
Uncle Agony had an email about this before Christmas. Because I was very tied up in personal problems of my own and with the busy activities in the run up to the holiday season I am afraid my responses were perhaps not as full as they could have been. I am publishing the email exchange on Uncle Agony here.
If you feel able to offer help and support from your own knowledge or experience I would be grateful if you could add a comment there.
taking the lead - J had been reading an earlier post on Uncle Agony, "brand spanking new to the D/s world". Reading it stimulated him to write an email of his own to Uncle A...
2 months ago