I came across this comment on Twitter today,
"BDSM… Un art de vivre, pas un hobby."
Roughly translated - "BDSM... A lifestyle not a hobby."
Is MonsieurF right? Must BDSM be a lifestyle rather than a hobby or can it be either or even something in-between?
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4 years ago
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There is a brief exchange on Twitter about it here:
https://twitter.com/Beauxxxx/status/873224508529942529
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I think it can be anything one wants it to be. Some people are more focused than others; some have more of a need.
For me, I think it works better for us, and I feel better about it when it is a lifestyle. When things go to the wayside and it feels more like a hobby, I find myself unhappy.
But, there are those that dabble and that is fine too!
Thank you Lea.
I am pleased you have found a way that works for you and built that relationship. Like you I think there is no reason to be prescriptive about this - it is OK for people to involve themselves in the way that works best for them. We are all different.
Good luck
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