Monday 1 January 2018

New Year Resolutions...

Happy New Year everyone. Wishing you all a delightfully happy and kinky 2018.

Have you made any New Year resolutions? No I don't mean the boring ones like do more exercise, giving up smoking again and being much tidier. I am thinking of ones more on the kinky side. Are you going to find more interesting and imaginative ways of pleasing your Master? Are you going to search for even more inventive ways of tormenting your masochistic submissive? Or perhaps you have yet more interesting - or even mundane- BDSM related New Years resolutions to share.

I keep commenting to Inès that she really needs a spanking - usually when she has teased me at a time when she knows I am too tired or too busy to do so. I tell her she will get one later but of course she always "forgets" to remind me. This year I shall remind myself and she may get a few more of those deserved spankings! In fact I want to put much more time aside for that part of our life. We have both been busy with other stresses and commitments this last year which have got in the way of us making time for ourselves and kinky pleasures. So this year my resolution is to make much more time for deviant fun - and perhaps to try to attend a few events.

12 comments:

Jz said...

With or without more spankings, I hope you have a terrific New Year!

Pygar said...

Thanks Jz. I hope you have a great New Year too - and of course all the spankings you desire!

P xx

julie said...

We had a discussion about making a few changes this morning - more play (including spankings), more time where I am reminded of my status, more playtime at clubs etc. Wishing you both a great new year xx

Lea said...

I think we're both going to be working on being more present in the D/s side of our relationship. In other aspects, we're fine.

Pygar said...

Thanks Julie, your changes sound to chime in very well with my own that I have discussed with Inès. Good luck and Happy New Year.

P xx

Pygar said...

Thanks too Lea. Yes, perhaps that is the baseline - just being more "present" in the D/s side of your relationship. That chimes well too.

Happy New Year

P xx

blossom said...

Have a wonderful healthy and happy new year P
blossom x

Cat said...

I am not into New Year's resolutions for many reasons...just make them as I need them. You might want to consider carrying one of the pocket sized notebooks to record Inès' transgressions. That's what my Matthew did since we were apart so much. Wishing you a wonderful 2018.

Hugs and blessings...Cat

Pygar said...

Thank you blossom. I was thinking of you just the other day. I hope all is well.

Happy New Year

P xx

Pygar said...

Thank you very much Cat for the helpful suggestion, the kind wishes and of course the hugs and blessings!

Happy New Year

P xx

Fondles said...

I haven't made any resolutions but BIKSS seems to be a little more committed to arranging more "play" time for us. I wonder if HE has decided on some things and hasn't told me about them.

I'd make a note of owed spankings in the fone.. alarms and reminders can be set for more appropriate times :)

Pygar said...

Ah yes, Fondles, perhaps you are right and HE has made some New Year Resolutions. I hope you both enjoy the result.

;)

Thank you too for the helpful suggestion. Everyone seems keen to ensure that Inès receives all the spankings she has due. How kind of you all!

P xx