I don't want a sub to consent to being flogged.
I want her to desire it.
I want her to desire it from me.
"But why?"
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Recently a couple of very long comments were posted by Anonymous to A Kind
Dom in response to the post punishment and domestic discipline. The
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6 years ago
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I often wonder about subs who aren't pain sluts. I long for the feel of the cane or the belt across my thighs, delivered by beloved owner. It means he needs to find ingenious punishment methods (see his latest blog!)
Tp x
That desire, on both sides, is surely the mark of a true D/s relationship...at times an elusive beast...
The mind is a powerful aphrodisiac. I am not a pain slut, but I have come to desire pain from him. He has cultivated my fantasies to reflect his.
the pain of pleasure, the pleasure of pain, oxymorons to the end but then, in that state where the edges of reality disintegrate, what remains but desire and I can throw back my head and exhale knowing I desire what he desires and feed the flames of his passion.
Very interesting. My fantasies often include my lover telling me what he wants to do to me, and then telling me that he wants me to ask...no, beg...for him to do it. But begging is not enough. He wants me to want him to do it. But in our case, at least, it's not about my wanting the pain, it's about my wanting to please him, and the realization that submitting to whatever he wants pleases him very much indeed.
Thank you very much alice, sweetmoana and constance for your contributuions.
Desire and fantasies can be so powerful. I appreciate you each sharing your feelings in this area.
For me desire is such an important aspect.
xPx
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