Maryann Lovejoy suggested spanking a partner to tears in a comment to a post on Uncle Agony. (Do read the full comment in context here.)
I remember writing a story about this for a friend a long time ago. (I must hunt it out.) She had often said she wanted to be spanked to tears. She had so much grief and distress welling up inside her but could not let it out. She could only cry for others but not for herself.
So she wanted to be spanked or beaten until she cried.
I am not sure I would have been strong enough. I know I did not try. Though in the end I brought her to tears through kindness instead.
I am lucky in having a woman now who is mine. I can do what I want with her. I can spank her and beat her as hard as I want. I am not sure though that I could spank her to tears. She is very strong. I am not sure what purpose spanking her to tears would serve and I feel it could be cruelty. I will discuss it with her.
I know for some that tears can be a great catharsis. They can help one feel better and move on.
I have cried in front of my submissive woman but I am not sure she has cried in front of me.
It can be a strength to cry.
To be happy to shed tears in front of another can show trust and be a sign of ones closeness.
Do you cry? For some it is too easy, for others too hard. Have you been beaten to tears? Would you like to be?
Or ... do you beat your sub to tears? How do you both feel about that?
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