Thursday, 13 February 2014

public display

In a comment to my recent post on humiliation nbs wrote,
"I'm often made to show myself off in private places to strangers..who are generally delighted. I hate it.. and love it and of course, do it for Sir."
It makes her nervous and ashamed ... and she loves it!

There are some though who delight in showing themselves off to strangers. I suppose if one has such an exhibitionist streak then there is no shame or embarrassment but just the thrill, even power perhaps, of public display.

Then there is the display at pubic events where couples may play in front of others. I know many subs get off on being played with in public in this way. I wonder if it is their exhibitionist streak or the delight in the humiliation of being restrained and used in front of others for their pleasure.

Do you get off on public display? If so is it because of a feeling of humiliation and display that feeds your submission or is it the power of exhibitionism?

12 comments:

Missus Whore said...

Exhibitionism is fun.

I want to be seen. I want to be a display. I want to be admired, and I want to arouse.

But not in a contrived setting.

I would not do well on a stage at a preplanned event.

I mean getting noticed at the back of a dark bar, or getting caught under the pier, or someone catching a glimpse through my open bedroom window.

There's no shame. But in a contrived setting it would lose the excitement for me. so it's the being seen, but it's also the getting caught.

nilla said...

When the "official" HNT ended a year or more ago now, Master made it firmly known that I was NOT to stop...Thursday is 'show your tits' day...always. Though it isn't public in the sense that I don't see those who see me, there is still a thrill for me. It's twofold...the exhibitionism aspect, and the more important one of pleasing Him.

nilla

Pygar said...

Thanks Missus Whore. Clearly you are on the exhibitionist side. It is interesting though that it works best for you in those almost chance settings rather than at planned events. If you want to be admired and displayed and cause arousal - then would not a planned event be ideal?

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Pygar said...

Thanks nilla - I see that you enjoy the exhibitionist aspect too.

In fact I see you've got them out again today. I'm sure readers will be dashing over to see them here!

;)

P xx

Missus Whore said...

Yes, you'd think a stage with a large and willing audience would fit the bill.

But there is something about it being set. Something about the whole purpose of it being to be seen that deflates it all for me.

I, the most unshy woman I have ever met, get shy at the mere thought.

Pygar said...

"I, the most unshy woman I have ever met, get shy at the mere thought."

... In that case Missus Whore if I were your Dom I might be tempted to insist!

;)

P xx

Missus Whore said...

And one day he may indeed insist.

He's only recently started really pushing anything without me approaching him for it first.

So we'll see!

Petals MJ said...

I am very shy...but do see the thrill in being seen. I have often asked Master if we could have sex outside or in the car, but he has not acquiesced yet. He has expressed concern of being seen...and I know I would have a mild panic as well, but it still thrills me in places ive not experienced before. I am still hopeful :)

Pygar said...

I wonder Petals MJ whether your thrill is actually in being seen but rather in the possibility of being seen. Perhaps those two aspects define the difference between exhibitionists and others who are into public display.

You and your Master seem both to be nervous of being seen. The difference between you seems to be that the nervousness gives you a thrill whereas it does not for your Master.

I hope one day he finds a way of helping you have your thrill. Thank you for the comment and good luck

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Pygar said...

Beau has been excited enough by this topic to publish an example here.

Now THAT was public display!!!

;)

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Betsy T said...

I like public play but when I think back, I am in such a horny, submissive state that I don't even see anyone around me. I am focused solely on Sir. If I think about it later, I blush thinking of my behavior :)

Pygar said...

Thanks Betsy.

Yes, I can understand that in an intense scene you may become unaware of all those around you. It seems for you that the extra dimension comes afterwards. I'm sure that Sir loves your blushes!

P xx