I was talking with someone last week who said he had been into masochism and now was into sadism and masochism. However he wasn't into submission or dominance. That side didn't interest him - it was purely the physical aspect that he was there for. The same evening someone else said to me in relation to D/s and BDSM, "It's all just about sex, isn't it?"
On the post below nbs commented, "... I've found myself much less submissive and more masochistic." So is she too finding she is mostly into the physical aspect?
So how important is the physical aspect to you? If you had to chose between the psychological relationship or the physical one, which would you chose?
Can a vanilla man with a dominant personality keep his kinky girlfriend? - I have often received emails from female submissives who are frustrated that their boyfriend/husband is vanilla and asking for advice. Then a few days ago ...
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