I was talking with someone last week who said he had been into masochism and now was into sadism and masochism. However he wasn't into submission or dominance. That side didn't interest him - it was purely the physical aspect that he was there for. The same evening someone else said to me in relation to D/s and BDSM, "It's all just about sex, isn't it?"
On the post below nbs commented, "... I've found myself much less submissive and more masochistic." So is she too finding she is mostly into the physical aspect?
So how important is the physical aspect to you? If you had to chose between the psychological relationship or the physical one, which would you chose?
Is it time to release her... ? - Graham has written a few times about his relationship. You can read earlier discussions here, here and here. I have just heard from him again. He writes, ...
4 months ago