Thursday, 28 February 2019


I have had a recent bereavement. It comes to us all.

In the build up to this though I found myself pondering on the issue of caring - and then on how it might apply to D/s and BDSM situations. Once things have settled down a little I will try to write it down.

Until then...

...hugs to you all.

Tuesday, 12 February 2019

UK law and BDSM porn.

There was an interesting item on Woman's Hour BBC radio programme yesterday about changes in the law regarding BDSM porn. The discussion was about some aspects of the change in law that may be seen as positive. However there are other aspects of change in the laws on porn in the UK that are less so.

However this was a very interesting discussion where Pandora Blake debated very eloquently in presenting her position on this. Readers may be interested in listening to the discussion which is available as a podcast here. (It is the first item on the programme,)

Wednesday, 6 February 2019

being naked...

How interesting that this old post of mine suddenly got lots of hits the today:

Do you like being naked?

Do you like being exposed?

Do you like being displayed?

In front of another ...

...or in front of lots of others?

Do you have an exhibitionist streak?

Or do you like to expose your sub before others? If so why? I can think of a variety of Dominant's reasons.

Do tell...