Thursday, 29 August 2013


Desireous wrote something interesting in a recent comment on this post. It was in the context of discussing whether ones needs could always be met by one person. She had found not even though it was her ideal situation so ad different deeds met by different people. That led her on to mention a new direction for her. She wrote,
Ideally for me I'd really like to have everything I want all in one person but that isn't that easy to find and sometimes you just have to settle or work with what life throws you I guess. Lately I've stumbled into the other side of D/s which opens up a whole new can of worms in regards to this subject. What of people who like to be dominated by one and submissive to another? As I feel that's kind of where I'm headed these days.
It might be even more difficult to find a partner who also switches in order that that ones submissive and dominant desires and needs can be fulfilled by the same person. So perhaps this is another case where a need for multiple partners becomes real.

I think it can be hard enough to find a compatible sub or Dom - but to find a compatible switch ... !

So any switches out there? How do you satiate your desires? With the same partner or with multiple partners?

Friday, 23 August 2013

What we did on our holidays ...

We've been back from Berlin for a week now and I've been sorting out my holiday snaps. We met up with a rope expert and my woman Inès had a very memorable bondage experience while I took photographs. I've put one here on my Beau blog today and will follow up with some more over the next week.

Monday, 19 August 2013

Back from Berlin - and another article about polyamoury

Had a great time. I may publish some photos on my Beau blog soon from a lovely evening we had there. S got all tied up! She loved it.

In the meantime I thought many of you might like to read an article I just found. It is about an interesting polyamorous family so follows on from recent discussions.

You can read it here.

Sunday, 4 August 2013

who will make it 400?

Some time ago I was celebrating the fact that I had 100 followers - here.

So I am rather amazed that I now have 399. I wonder if I will have 400 by the time I get back from Berlin?

I tell you what - a special gift of 400 spanks is offered to my 400th follower!!!


Berlin ... just the name seems infused with a certain decadence don't you think? I'm going to be there for a couple of weeks with my woman so forgive me if you don't find me here for a short while. Though if you happen to live in Berlin - see you there! You can show us round the local fun places to see and be seen!